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Here 5 things you should think about it… it is worse to regret later…
There are always things in life, which you may regret sooner or later. Sometimes only small things, sometimes decisive things. Sentences like … if I only … often comes too late. You should consider beforehand whether this or that decision is good or not so good.
Someone else will live your dream
We have all dreams and desires. But what if we never live our dreams. Do you always rear it? You may get self-doubt and do not dare. You want to achieve goals, but do not know how. Too many uncertainties, perhaps. You would like to live your dreams, but you don’t know how. There are people who live your dreams. If you see that, it makes you sad and maybe depressed. Do not allow this. Live your dream. Try it at least. Nothing is worse than not even trying!
“Love what you do and do what you love. Don’t listen to anyone else who tells you not to do it. You do what you want, what you love. Imagination should be the center of your life.” Ray Bradbury
Adjusting does not always have to be negative, but … you always want to adapt to all occasions and people. Always nice and kind? Where are you staying? Where are your wishes, your individuality? You do not always have to adjust yourself or even disguise yourself. Be like you and try to live your life. If it does not fit, it has no role to play.
““The measure of intelligence is the ability to change.” ― Albert Einstein
3. Exclude Negativity
Of course, you can not exclude everything that is negative. But you can separate yourself from people who are constantly negative. They pull you down. Take your air to breathe. Suck the energy out of your body. And you’ll be left behind. Do you really want this? You can not just simply separate yourself from such energy guzzlers and surround yourself with people who make your life more enjoyable? Who make you laugh and inspires you? Think about it! Really do that. New year is coming. Time to clean your friend list.
4. Satisfied with less you deserve
Yes, you can expect more from life. You do not have to be satisfied with things if you actually would deserve more. Who says you have to accept this. If you do not have the right man or the right woman – because you maybe deserve better? Then leave her or him. You can also live well on your own. Is your job not worthy? There are always ways to go a new way. While it is not always easy, it is worth it. You are precious and you should never forget that. No matter what you do, do not be content with less than you deserve.
“Make the most of what you have and keep your standards high. Never settle for anything less than you deserve or are capable of achieving.” Roy T. Bennett,
5. Yes tomorrow…
Who actually tells you how many more hours do you have? How do you know how old you are? Do you have a glass ball? No? Too bad me either. If you move every important decision every time. Why? Because it is not the right time. This “right” time will never come. Because sometimes you have to create “the right time”. There are so many things in life that we can not influence, such as, Diseases or accidents (and much more). Do the things that you can influence. You have only one life. It’s yours and only you have to live it. Are you sure you want to postpone your decisions?